DAY 295---Day from hell w/ computers-mishaps and misunderstandings

iTunes not responding-Force Quit---update iPhone and black screen with iTunes logo and charging cord image on screen,otherwise unresponsive.  Off to Apple Store Genius Bar, very nice guy Phil, able to reset phone to new all data lost, Argh!!! luckily have an iPad and some of it is restoring itself wiht my wifi connection, Back tomorrow with the desktop. It's 9 years old and worried about whats wrong.  Send me some positive energy and intention into the Universe for me folks gonna need it Saturday at 1:30 pm Vancouver Time.
hugs
ps here's a pic that mirrors my frustrations